Motherhood is the most rewarding and the hardest job ever. We all try to be the most perfect mother’s out there but no one is perfect.
Moms are the heads of families without moms nothing would get done. My mom is my best friend. We have a good relationship and I hope my daughter and I have the same relationship.
I try so hard to be her mother and be someone she can come to with all her problems. I’ve never loved anyone the way I love my daughter she has made me a better person.
As a mother struggling with aniexty and depression everyday I try to make it through the day for her. Us mother’s would do anything for our kids even through its killing us inside. Our beautiful blessings are the reasons we push to do better to care and love no matter what.
A lot of times we may doubt ourselves that we are failing as moms or that we are messing up our kids. I know I have doubted if I’m being the best I can. We as mother’s should judge each other less and stand together. Be there for each other because we are all going through the same feelings.
We are tired, stressed and just beat from doing all we can or need to do to make sure the people we love have everything they need. We put everyone before ourselves but sometimes to be an awesome mom we need to unplug. We need to have some time to ourselves.
Grab your friends or yourself and have some you time to unwind. Do something for yourself because being a mom is hard. I know that without some of my friends in my life I couldn’t do it. Us moms need to help each other when we are in need. If you need a nap because you haven’t slept in days I will be there to watch the kids so you can nap.
We need to pamper ourselves, get your nails done or do your hair. Maybe take a nice hot bath with a good book. Have a glass of wine and just unwind. I love being a mother but somedays I need to be by myself and do something for me. Don’t feel like your being selfish because you beautiful women are not. You need to think of your mental health to be that awesome mom you are.
Motherhood is the hardest job ever don’t let anyone tell you different.
Until next time..xoxo